Moving to an almshouse when you’re 60 – Angie’s story
“It’s a restorative place. Everybody has been so friendly and warm and welcoming.”
Angie moved to Sycamore House a few weeks ago. We caught up to find out how she’s settling in…
What do you think of your new home?
It’s just such a joy. I couldn’t have asked for a more beautiful home. It’s spacious and peaceful and the environment is absolutely stunning. I was in a studio flat before. Now, I have a separate bedroom, which is almost as big as the whole of my last flat.
I have multiple sclerosis so am at home quite a lot, but my last flat was so cramped it was difficult for me to physically manoeuvre my way around it. Now, I can move around much more freely. I could ballet dance around if I was capable!
My flat has been decorated and new flooring was put down. There are beautiful units in the kitchen. I’ve got a balcony as well, so I can stand outside and look at the moon at 10 o’clock at night if I want to.
Why did you decide to move to Sycamore House?
I lived on a busy junction for the last 11 years. It wasn’t a very nice environment. I had 24-hour noise from sirens, so I didn’t sleep well. There was mould, and I had years of anti-social behaviour from a neighbour. It was pretty horrendous.
Before then, I was living in a lovely flat in Fulham with a friend of mine, who’s an opera singer. I’d just finished a degree in music technology when I got breast cancer. The council wrongly withheld discretionary housing benefits, which meant that payments to my landlord were delayed, so I was made homeless, through no fault of my own, and ended up in social housing accommodation.
I wanted to move for a very long time, but I just didn’t have any other options. I’m in receipt of benefits due to my long-term health issues.
A friend had been to the open day at Sycamore House and told me all about it. I’d just turned 60, which opened the door for me. I put my name down and it all happened really quickly. Now, I’m living in this beautiful place with birds singing and butterflies flying.
You’re enjoying living in a quieter neighbourhood then?
Yes. You don’t feel like you’re in the heart of London. It’s so peaceful, a ray of sunshine, an oasis in the desert! Before, I had to wait until things died down around two o’clock in the morning before I could get off to sleep. Whereas now, if I want to go to bed at 8.30 I can, which is incredible.
It’s quite surreal. I keep having ‘pinch me’ moments. Just to be able to open the curtains and see the sun coming up is wonderful. There’s a hammock swing in the garden that’s definitely got my name on it!
Have you met many of the other residents?
Yes, I’ve already bonded with a lot of people here. Everybody I’ve met has been so friendly and warm and welcoming. Whenever I pop down to put my rubbish out, I always end up bumping into people and having a chat.
We went on a trip to Southend yesterday. I went to the coffee morning today, and I’m having a meal with one of my new neighbours tonight.
Chris [the scheme manager] is so lively and efficient as well.
It sounds like living here has really lifted your spirits.
It’s already been a healing time for me, even just in my first few weeks of living here. It’s a restorative place; I can already feel my nervous system calming down. Hopefully, once I’ve been here a little while, I’ll be able to do more of the things that I really love to do. I’m a jazz singer, songwriter, poet, reflexologist and natural health enthusiast, but I haven’t been able to do much of that for the last 11 years. I was offered a grant from Help Musicians a couple of years ago to write songs and record an album, but I had to let it go. The situation I was in just made things too difficult – the noise, the anti-social behaviour and the fact that I basically became a carer for my next-door neighbour.
Maybe, once I’m settled, I can reapply for that grant. I’m already down to sing at Christmas at Sycamore House!
It’s been a very stressful decade, so I feel very blessed that this is my home now.
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