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“The final straw came when my 11-year-old nephew was threatened while he was at school.”
Black boys and young men are far more likely to be murdered in London than their counterparts. In 2022, 71% of the teenagers murdered in London were Black boys. Black men also face systemic barriers to achieving top jobs. According to the Black Talent Charter, “Verbal skills and poor commercial judgement were cited as reasons black candidates dropped out of interview processes, with companies describing a lack of ‘polish’ that allows candidates to operate within professional corporate social codes. In turn, this view may favour specific accents, mannerisms and conversational skills.”
Due to his own experiences, Ademola Adeyeba had long recognised the challenges faced by Black boys and young men. Bullied throughout school due to his African accent and name, Ademola attempted suicide twice; by his late teens, he had a dim outlook on life, was struggling and making poor choices, which nearly led to him being stabbed.
Thankfully, Ademola was able to turn his life around, build a successful career in sales and business, and become one of the top trainers in an international business. As he explains, “I discovered this whole new world where you can be successful based on how you communicate, deal with rejection and deal with setbacks. It dawned on me that nobody ever told me any of this when I was growing up. I wasn’t taught this at school or in life, but I was able to learn it in the business space.
“I saw the 2011 Tottenham riots first hand. I saw lots of really angry young people who were just totally fed up, and I saw that lots of them had great potential. I thought, ‘What if this young person got the kind of opportunity that I had? What if we could give some of the training I’ve had to Black boys and young Black men?’
“I was also sick and tired of seeing in newspapers the faces of young Black boys whose lives had been taken. The final straw came in 2018, when my 11-year-old nephew was threatened by a 12-year-old while he was at school.”
Ademola used his experiences to create 1000 Black Boys – a social enterprise committed to inspiring Black boys and young Black men to unleash their potential and to live a life of purpose. The CIC does this in several interconnected ways:
A digital platform is also planned, in order to support parents and guardians to access local services.
Tackling negative perceptionsA key part of 1000 Black Boys’ mission is to counter the negative stereotypes that Black people face from the media, school and life in general.
Ademola says, “In the first session of our mentorship programme, we ask them about the perception that some people have of Black boys and young Black men. They come out with ‘I’m a rude boy, I’m a gangster. I’m a criminal. I don’t like maths, I hate school. I’m never going to amount to anything.’
“The media plays a massive role in that perception, but they’ve also been told the same in other environments. Many have been told by their teachers that they’re stupid and won’t amount to anything.
“So, we explore the fact that people who look like them are running businesses and contributing in phenomenal ways to the world. We start to break down the stereotypes and show these men and boys that they can choose to do incredible things.”
As one participant, Samuel, said, “It was really eye-opening. The information that Ade taught me personally and the other Black boys that were in the sessions was very empowering – something that you don’t really get at school … this organisation is really one of a kind, inspirational.”
1000 Black Boys regularly runs events focused on inspiration and empowerment. Ademola explains, “We bring in people who are doing brilliant things and have them share their story and their journey. These events are incredibly powerful and you can see them flick a switch in the young people. It gives them role models – proof that they can do great things.”
The CIC also holds events for parents who have lost a child to youth violence. Ademola says, “They’re dealing with the loss of a child, and they’re hearing things in the media that are not true, and they’re not able to say, ‘Hey, that’s not the case. This is what happened.’ So, we give them a platform to be heard and, where we can, we pay them as speakers.”
We’re supported 1000 Black Boys with several grants; the latest is funding three of the Inspiration and Empowerment events at White City.
Ademola says, “It’s great to have a funder that really gets our mission and understands what we’re doing. Because of our name and what we do, some organisations don’t want to fund us, but HUC have been a great partner. In early 2024, they gave us the biggest grant that we’d ever had at the time. They’ve also helped us to meet other organisations within the local area.”
The feedback from participants and parents has been overwhelmingly positive. As one boy who has been through the programme, Levi, says, “1000 Black Boys has really helped me to see the world in a different way … focus on the things that I want to achieve in life and how I can be successful and help other young Black boys who are trying to accomplish their goals.”
The CIC’s work also has an impact on the wider community. Ademola explains, “If we lose this young person, we all lose, but if this young person wins, we all win. Maybe the young person becomes the next tech billionaire, or an incredible chef or politician or business leader. When they get to realise their potential, they could employ thousands of people of different backgrounds and different races; that young person’s potential benefits everyone.”
1000 Black Boys has various Mentorship Programmes and events planned; the best way to keep informed is by subscribing to its newsletter. You can also email hello@1000blackboys.com for more details.
Everyone is welcome to attend the events.
Women who experience domestic abuse are twice as likely to experience depression as those who don’t.
UNiTE to End Violence against Women is an annual campaign led by the UN. The campaign kicks off on 25th November – the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women – and runs until Human Rights Day on 10th December.
Most violence against women is committed by the woman’s husband or other intimate partner. It happens in every country across the globe; 1.4 million women in the UK experience domestic abuse each year and, on average, one woman is killed by a male partner or ex-partner every week.
However, even more worrying are stats from the UK’s police chiefs – which point to more women affected by domestic abuse taking their own lives than were murdered by a partner or former partner. Yet there is very little awareness of or discussion around what is arguably a secondary and largely invisible impact on women.
That’s where organisations like Woman’s Trust come in. Set up almost 30 years ago, Woman’s Trust has an exclusive and specialist focus on providing free mental health care to address the trauma caused by domestic abuse and the effect this has on women in their daily lives – often going undiagnosed for years, sometimes even decades after the relationship has ended.
Woman’s Trust has received a number of grants from us since 2012. The London-based charity has supported tens of thousands of women with free therapy and counselling and has been a literal lifesaver for women at some of the most desperate times of their lives.
A client of Woman’s Trust shared, “My experience getting help and support from Woman’s Trust was invaluable. I was not in a good place and didn’t know that I was in an abusive relationship for all those years and what was abusive about it. When it’s psychological abuse, it’s very difficult to decipher. WT helped me to see things and to understand what was happening to me, which made me understand why I have been feeling so depressed for so many years.”
Rachel Prescott-Smith is Head of Fundraising at Woman’s Trust. She told us, ‘‘Domestic abuse still carries shame and stigma (which it shouldn’t) and as a result, many women don’t like to talk about it, and worryingly some don’t even recognise their experiences as abuse. Most people also don’t really consider the resulting trauma and mental health issues that experiencing domestic abuse can cause, even though one in two women’s suicide attempts are linked to their experiences of abuse. Raising awareness is so important, as it helps survivors know they are not alone, and that help is out there.”
According to Rachel, there are still many misconceptions around domestic abuse, from what it entails to how likely it is to happen and the way it affects survivors on a practical and emotional level. Many people don’t realise that the term ‘domestic abuse’ covers a wide range of abusive behaviour, from physical violence to economic control and psychological abuse.
Women who experience domestic abuse are twice as likely to experience depression as those who don’t, and it can take a long time to process the trauma – or even recognise that mental health challenges are caused by domestic abuse. Counselling is invaluable, but it’s difficult to access on the NHS and even more rare to get specialists who understand the unique ways in which survivors are affected, which is why charities like Woman’s Trust are so important.
Rachel shares, “If you’ve experienced domestic abuse and live in one of the areas that we work in, we can offer you up to 18 sessions with a counsellor. You’ll see the same counsellor, at the same time each week, so that you can build rapport and feel more comfortable. Sessions are completely confidential and can be online or face-to-face in a women-only setting.”
If you’re experiencing (or have experienced) domestic abuse, and you want to find out about counselling sessions in London, contact Woman’s Trust on:
(Office hours: Mon-Fri, 9:30am – 5pm)
If you want to make a professional referral for someone under your care or supervision, call Woman’s Trust on 020 7034 0303.
For immediate advice or support, please call the National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247.
Angelou is a partnership of West Central London services that support women and girls affected by domestic violence and abuse. You can call Angelou for free on 0808 801 0660, email angelou@advancecharity.org.uk or visit www.angelou.org to find out more.
If you’re a man experiencing domestic abuse, call Respect’s Men’s Advice Line on 0808 8010327, email info@mensadviceline.org.uk or visit www.mensadviceline.org.uk. The ManKind charity can also help you to escape an abusive situation.
The H&F Big Christmas Day Lunch
If someone you know is aged 60+ and likely to be alone on Christmas Day, please tell them about the H&F Big Christmas Day Lunch. Up to 500 people will celebrate Christmas Day together at Novotel London West. The annual event is free to attend and includes a two-course lunch, live music and a goodie bag.
Almost one million older people in the UK often feel lonely. While this can be hard to cope with at any time of the year, Christmas can be particularly difficult. The festive period can be a painful reminder of loved ones lost or living far away.
The Big Christmas Day Lunch means that people can choose to enjoy the day with others rather than spending it alone. The event is always very popular. Guests and volunteers dance, chat and form new friendships.
It’s completely free to attend and free transport can also be arranged for those who need it.
Attend the lunch
If you or someone you know is interested in joining the Big Christmas Day lunch, you can sign up here. The last day to register is December 10th. To attend, you need to be a resident of Hammersmith & Fulham and either be aged 60+ or referred by one of H&F’s services or charities.
Donate to ensure more people can benefit
It costs around £55,000 to run the event, so it’s only thanks to the generosity of local people and businesses that H&F Council can keep the lunch free to attend. Without these donations, many more people would spend Christmas Day alone and lonely. If you’d like to support the lunch, you can find out more and make a donation here.
Volunteer to help local residents
H&F Council is recruiting volunteers to support the Big Christmas Day Lunch. If you can’t volunteer on the day, there are still plenty of ways to get involved, from filling goodie bags to writing Christmas cards. You can sign up to volunteer here.
One of our residents, Siobhan, has been volunteering to support her community for more than 15 years.
Volunteers are at the heart of our community, sharing their time and skills to support others and, in turn, gaining new experiences, new friendships and contentment. Around 966,000 people volunteer in London each year. Those aged between 65 and 74 are the most likely to volunteer. Once people have retired from paid work, they often find that they want to continue contributing to their community and now have more time to do so.
One such volunteer is almshouse resident Siobhan, who has been supporting the Chelsea & Kensington branch of the Royal British Legion for 10 years. She finds it immensely rewarding: “Volunteering is a way of giving something back and helping others. It gives one a good feeling.”
For several years, Siobhan took on much of the responsibility for organising the branch’s Poppy Appeal, including managing volunteers and ordering stock, as well as selling poppies herself. She shares, “It ended up taking up a full four months each year. At our busiest times, I’d sometimes leave my home at 8.30am and not get back until 7pm.”
This year, Siobhan has reduced her workload considerably, but she’s still been helping out by packing and selling poppies.
The Poppy Appeal raises around £45-£55 million every year, which the Royal British Legion uses to support thousands of members of the armed forces, including with:
None of this would be possible without an army of volunteers across the UK, many of whom have retired from paid work. As well as raising money, Royal British Legion volunteers help to raise awareness. Siobhan shares, “People will stop by the stand and ask questions. They’re often surprised that the Poppy Appeal isn’t just about the World Wars; it’s about supporting all veterans.”
Siobhan wholeheartedly recommends that people consider volunteering. Prior to the Royal British Legion, she supported Crisis at Christmas for five years and found it a “magical, rewarding and gratifying” thing to do. In fact, Siobhan has already found her next voluntary role – supporting patients and staff at Chelsea and Westminster Hospital. She’ll be greeting visitors, running errands and delivering medicine to wards.
Siobhan isn’t the only person at Hammersmith United Charities who enjoys volunteering. Several of our other residents and staff members volunteer regularly or on an ad-hoc basis. Siobhan even persuaded Scheme Manager Chris and Gardener Victoria (V) to sell poppies when she was short of volunteers!
The Royal British Legion
The Royal British Legion is always keen to hear from people who would like to volunteer. There are a number of ways to support veterans through the charity, from selling poppies and sorting stock to helping in the office. To find out more, email ChelseaKensington.Chairman@rbl.community
Other ways to volunteer
Hammersmith & Fulham offers hundreds of ways to volunteer for your community. As Victoria Hill, Chief Executive & Clerk to the Trustees at Hammersmith United Charities, says, “Every single one of our grant-holders relies on volunteers in one way or another.”
You could read with children, serve clients at your local foodbank or help people to manage their finances. Whatever your interests, skills or availability, you’ll find volunteering opportunities by contacting local charities or visiting Simply Connect and Link Up London.
